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Nancy Evans Bush, M. A.
Nancy Evans Bush, MA is President Emeritus of the International Association for Near-Death Studies
Bruce Greyson, MD
Bruce Greyson, MD, is the Chester F. Carlson Professor of Psychiatry and Neurobehavioral Sciences and Director of the Department of Cognitive Studies at the University of Virginia School of Medicine
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The vast majority of near-death experiences (NDEs) that have been publicly reported over the past four decades have been described as pleasurable, even glorious. Almost unnoticed in the euphoria about her was the troubling fact that not all NDEs are so life-affirming. Some are deeply disturbing.
Few people talk about such an event; They are hiding; disappear when requested information; if they are hospitalized, they are likely to give up; You are under a lot of stress. What do your doctors need to know to deal with these experiences?
Types of distressing near-death experiences
We've documented three types of harrowing NDEs: reverse, empty, and hellish.1The following brief descriptions illustrate the types. All examples are from the authors' archives unless otherwise noted.
In some NDEs, features normally described as pleasant in other NDEs are perceived as hostile or threatening. A man, thrown from his horse, floated to the top of a tree and watched paramedics work on his body. "Not! bizarre scenario and his inability to influence what was happening left him in a panic.
A woman in childbirth felt her spirit detach from her body and fly into space at tremendous speed, then she saw a small ball of light zooming towards her: “It got bigger and bigger as it came towards me. I realized we were on a collision course and it scared me. I saw blinding white light coming straight at me and enveloping me.”
One woman collapsed from hyperthermia and began to relive her entire life: "I was filled with so much sadness and going through so much depression."
The NDE of Emptiness
An “empty” NDE is an ontological encounter with a vast perceived void, often a devastating scene of loneliness, isolation, sometimes annihilation. A woman in childbirth abruptly flew over the hospital and fell into deep, empty space. A group of circular beings informed her that she never existed, that she was allowed to imagine her life, but it was a joke; she wasn't real. She argued with facts about her life and descriptions of the land. "No," they said, "none of this was ever real; it was all there was." She was left alone in space.2, S. 1–5
Another mother felt she was floating in the water, but at a certain point “it was no longer a feeling of peace; it had become pure hell. I had become a light in the sky and I screamed, but no sound came out. It was worse than any nightmare. I turned around and realized this was eternity; this was what forever would be…. I felt the loneliness, the emptiness of space, the vastness of the universe, but I, a mere screaming ball of light.”
A woman who attempted suicide felt sucked into a void: “I was being pulled into this dark abyss or tunnel or void…. I was not aware of my body as I know it... I was shocked. I was afraid. I didn't expect anything; I waited for the great sleep; expected oblivion; and I found out now that I was getting on another plane... and it scared me. I didn't want anything, but that power pulled me to a place I didn't want to go, but I never got out of the fog."
A man being attacked by a hitchhiker felt himself leaving his body: "Suddenly, I was surrounded by total darkness, floating in nothing but black space, with no top, bottom, left or right... Eternity passed. I lived fully in this misery. I was only allowed to think and reflect."
Seemingly hellish experiences may be the least common type of distressing NDE. A man with heart failure felt himself falling into the depths of the earth. Below was a series of tall, rusted gates that he realized were the gates of Hell. Panicking, he managed to climb back out into the open.
A woman was escorted through a shockingly desolate landscape and saw a group of wandering spirits. They looked lost and were in pain, but her guide told her not to help them.
An atheist college professor with a ruptured intestine was maliciously pinched and then torn apart by malicious beings.3
A woman bleeding from a ruptured fallopian tube reported an NDE involving “terrible beings with gray, gelatinous appendages that reached out and grabbed me. The sounds of their guttural moans and the indescribable smell are still there 41 years later. There were no benevolent beings of light, no videos of life, nothing beautiful or pleasant.”
A woman attempting suicide felt her body slide downwards into a cold, dark, watery environment: "When I got to the bottom, it looked like a cave entrance, with what looked like nets hanging down... I heard screaming, wailing, groaning and creaking of teeth. I saw these beings that looked human, shaped like a head and body, but were ugly and grotesque.... They were frightening and sounded as if they were being tormented, in agony.”
Three types of answers
These near-death experiences are traumatic in their reality, shattering the sense of mundane reality and the power of the issues they raise. Three common responses apply to all types of experience: inversion, reductionism, and long distance.2
1. The Plot Point: "I needed this"
A classic response to a deep spiritual experience is conversion, not necessarily changing one's religion, but in the original sense of the Latin convertere, meaning to turn around. The terrible NDE is interpreted as a warning against reckless or wrong behavior and to turn one's life upside down: “I was shown that I had to mold or give away one thing or another. In other words, 'Get Together', and that's what I did.”4, p. 46
The movement towards a dogmatic religious community is widespread in this group. Clinical social worker Kimberly Clark Sharp noted, "Everyone I know who has had negative experiences has become a biblical Christian... You can express it in various sects. But everyone feels like they've come back from a terrible situation and have a second chance."5, p. 85
Fear may remain a powerful influence, but strict theology may offer a way out. The atheist professor above, who experienced being maliciously pinched and then torn apart by malicious beings, left his university and entered the seminary.3Others also shared a new dedication: “I got off drugs, moved back to Florida, and now I'm in Bible school. I used to have a casual attitude towards death, but now I fear it even more. So yes, it was a warning. I was given another chance to change my behavior on Earth... I took my fear of death and put it in the scriptures.”4, p. 43Since then I have dedicated my life to the supreme God Jehovah and spend 60 hours a month speaking and teaching about the Creator of heaven and earth and all living things. I am not worried now about death, because now I know that God has promised us something much more.”
2. Reductionism: "It was just..."
In response to a harrowing experience, reductionism has been described as the "defense that allows you to dismiss the meaning of an event that does not fit into a safe category" and "treat the event as if it doesn't matter". 🇧🇷6, p. 35
One woman whose anaphylactic reaction triggered an NDE with both loving and scary elements concluded: "Actually, there are rational explanations for what I experienced... When stressed, the brain releases natural opiates that stop the pain and anxiety. The lack of oxygen stops it. the normal activity of the visual cortex.... Too much neural activity in the dying brain causes streaks of activity.... Our eyes, even closed, interpret these activity strips as... the sensation of moving forward in a tunnel... More brain cells are concentrated in the center of the cortex than on the edges. So, as we approach death, the brain interprets all those dense cells with their crazy activity as a bright light in the center of our field of vision. It's all very scientific."7, p. 95
Their conclusion is that, based on the scientific evidence, the experience had no ontological significance. Any lingering fears are not addressed.
A woman who had a horrible experience during childbirth also dismissed the reality of the experience: "Perhaps it was the effects of the ether and not a near-death experience." wildly: “I often wonder if my mind was playing tricks on me in the shock of the attack and that maybe I was just unconscious and my brain was starved for oxygen. 🇧🇷
A man who had spoken publicly about his brilliant NDE for many years had a second experience of being attacked by gigantic, mysterious and menacing geometric shapes, leaving him with deep-seated pessimism and deathly fear. Upon learning that drug-induced hallucinations involve geometric shapes, he concluded that his second NDE was "just a drug reaction." This may be a clinically reasonable conclusion, but experience remains. Reductionism provides a temporary buffer to mask issues and fears, but does nothing to resolve them.
3. Long distance: "What did I do?"
Other experienced people have difficulty understanding or integrating surprising NDEs. Years later, these people still struggle with the existential implications of the NDE: “I had an experience that stayed with me for 29 years…. It left a horror in my head and I never spoke about it until now." And: "After all these years, the nightmare is still alive in my mind." "For some reason [31 years later] all the memories are back and alive ... . It's like reliving it all over again, and I don't want to. I thought I had everything sorted and in its place, but this time I'm having a really hard time taking notes.
Also: "For the next 50 years I would try to push the memory of the dark, ominous experience away because it felt so real it was still scary no matter how old I got." And: "I've been married 33 years and I don't even discuss the experience with my husband…. And yet it's as clear to me now as it was when it happened." Also: "I just buried the whole thing as deep as I could, I've been so busy with civic affairs, politics... It seems pretty clear to me now, although the details aren't there, that there's a core issue that still needs to be addressed. addressed.”
“I keep seeing this vision as flashbacks. I can't get it out of my head... I still see it in my head with my own eyes. It's been two years, but I've never spoken about it. My husband doesn't even know... I want to put this behind me, but I can't."
This group usually consists of articulate people who are haunted by the existential dimension of their NDE and are looking for a cognitively and emotionally grounded explanation. They find a literal interpretation of the event intellectually unacceptable, but reductionist explanations just assign a cause without addressing the meaning. They struggle to understand the nagging NDE without destroying them (and their faith in the way the world works) in the process.
More than others, these experimenters have been in psychotherapy, some for many years, although without data this may only indicate openness and financial resources. Doctors often prescribe drugs to disguise the interviews and dismiss the NDE as fanciful or pathological; Therapists will not broach the subject or leave the client feeling guilty or romanticizing spirituality and failing to deal with its dark side; and the clergy either have no idea what to say or categorically reject the experience.
The religious element of your NDE is usually absent:
"I was filled with a feeling of absolute terror and that I couldn't help anyone, not even God."
"I looked around. Looking deliberately for… God or some other angelic creature, but I was alone.”
“I expected the Lord to be there, but He wasn't... I called on God and He wasn't. That scared me."4, p. 53
Mostly your questions involve some variation of "What did I do to deserve this?" or "What are the rules if the rules I've been living by don't work?" They don't lose their fear of death for long, if ever." The man upstairs, being attacked by a hitchhiker, was still wrestling with the aftermath: "I was thinking, if I was in this hell, I'd come back to my death ? Was I sent there for something I might do in the future or for something I did in the past? ... I don't believe in hell, but it was such a powerful experience, there's always this underlying insecurity and anger and fear."
The psychological literature on posttraumatic growth did not exist in the early years of our study of distressing NDEs, so this aspect of the response is underestimated. As a growing number of studies make clear, it is even the most devastating life event, "like the sand that produces the oyster, often what drives people to become more true to themselves, to face new challenges and to see life from a broader perspective consider point of view.”8, p. 7This is a promising and underdeveloped approach for clinicians working with people who are struggling after a harrowing near-death experience.9
Seven things to know about harrowing near-death experiences
Distressing NDEs occur in the same diverse set of circumstances and share most of the same elements as pleasurable NDEs. What differs is the emotional tone, which ranges from fear to terror, passing through guilt or despair. Reports often lack two elements common to pleasurable NDEs: a positive emotional tone and loss of fear of death.
A notorious reluctance to report a distressing NDE can result in lasting trauma for individuals and limit data on the occurrence. A literature review spanning thirty years of research concludes that as many as one in five NDEs may be predominantly distressing.10
The etiology of all these events remains unknown. Despite decades of clinical studies, none adequately explain the cause or function of NDEs. Furthermore, NDEs cut across so many clinical circumstances and demographics that there is no way to predict who will have what type of NDE. No evidence supports the conventional wisdom that "good" people have pleasant NDEs and "bad" people have distressing NDEs. Santos reported extremely disturbing NDEs,11, S. 63–75while criminals and suicides experienced bliss.12, S. 41–44
Pleasant NDEs tend to convey universal messages of compassion that transcend religious and philosophical systems. Distressing NDEs often have less focused messages, but follow the ancient shamanic pattern of suffering/death/resurrection, which can be read less metaphorically as an invitation to self-examination, dissolving core beliefs, and rebuilding. In practice, a common interpretation of a distressing NDE is that it is a life-changing message.
The description of each NDE is shaped by the experiencer's pre-existing mental categories and vocabulary. For example, although the archetype of a benevolent leader is common in NDEs, individuals often identify the presence according to their own cultural vocabulary. Any account that identifies an archetypal person by name is a perception that may or may not be factually true, but cannot be verified as such. Understandably, it is such facts that can upset religious and materialistic groups. Secular Westerners generally believe that an NDE portends a psychotic episode.
The main effect of many NDEs is a strong and persistent awareness that the physical world is not the full extent of reality. Since this insight is profoundly contrary to Western materialism and, conversely, its implications pertain to some dogmatic theological teachings, the new belief often abruptly and permanently disrupts the experimenter's personal life and social relationships.
A major challenge for physicians and other scientists who study reports of near-death experiences is managing this intrusion of non-materialistic religious and philosophical language and understandings into the hard data of clinical reasoning. Interestingly, it is precisely at the extremes of religious fundamentalism and material scientism that a problem with the literal is found. For fundamentalists, accounts are considered literally physically real; for committed materialists they must be dismissed as madness because literal physical reality is impossible and no alternative concept is acceptable.
Raymond Moody noted in the article that introduces this series, "Best practice for clinicians is to strictly adhere to clinical and research concerns."13, p. 371Post-NDE judgments of patients and their families with whom clinicians must interact likely make this suggestion difficult to follow. Listening without judging may be the most viable alternative.
Like the more familiar pleasurable NDEs, distressing near-death experiences as altered states of consciousness are both fascinating and frustrating. Because of the ingrained concept of hell in Western culture and its Christian association with eternal physical torment, they pose serious challenges for people who must shape their lives around such a profound event, as well as their families, friends and doctors. In the absence of clear clinical data and universal cultural views, clinicians are cautioned that a neutral opinion and careful listening are likely to represent professional best practice in dealing with these difficult near-death experiences.
Nancy Evans Bush, MA, (left) is president emeritus of the International Association for Near-Death Studies. Bruce Greyson, MD, is the Chester F. Carlson Professor of Psychiatry and Neurobehavioral Sciences and Director of the Department of Cognitive Studies at the University of Virginia School of Medicine.
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(1977) described 3 –instead of 5– successive phases: (1) resistance (including a recognition of danger, the fear of dying, a struggle to live, and acceptance of death), (2) life review, and (3) transcendence (i.e., a mystical state of consciousness).Can a near death experiences cause PTSD? ›
Posttraumatic Stress Disorder
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- Relevance Of Learned Skills.
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Symptoms of emotional detachment
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Days Before Death Symptoms
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